Dissatisfaction = Encouragement

Sometimes in life, we face discouragement or dissatisfaction from senior, lecturer, colleagues, friends and most importantly, our BOSS. Sometimes we put a high hope on completing some task and hoping or ensured that we will get a better praise or encouragement from someone, but it turns out to be fatal. We were not praise or receiving better compliment but being discouraged and put down. That makes us really sad and discourage.

Now, in this kind of situation, we can break down to several parts in terms of understanding the problem or situation.

• Unlikely and foolish act
• What is actually happens?
• What should you be doing then?

How should we be reacting to this situation when your lecturer, senior, boss or friend tells you that you are not doing really good enough or dissatisfy with your work?

Unlikely and foolish act

Some people tent to being influenced by this situation and act according to the feeling. They tent to give up and behave foolish such as giving up everything and show ignorance in their attitude. They think negatively and go around and talk bad things about those who rejected him/her.

Now, by doing this it doesn’t make someone become better, because the more you talk and think negatively the more you will become worse and more influence by this feeling. At the end you give up everything and keep on saying and thinking

“ WHY SHOULD I BE BETTER, NO MATTER HOW I DO, THEY WILL STILL SAY I’M BAD, BE IT LAH…… BAD THEN BAD LAH . . . WHO CARES . . .. “

Then you tent to brain washed yourself, until everything that the person does is BAD to you, then you hate that person more and more until it has no space to cure.

Why am I saying this is a false reaction, because you are a TRUE loser. Imagine, when your lecturer reject your work or disagree with your performance which mean you are a loser or failure right from the first place, rite? Then you act ignorance and act childish by giving up everything, act not naughty or “SAMSENG”. That makes you 2^nd time loser, rite? Then you fail your subject or getting low marks, 3^rd time loser. Then you at end you get poor result in your report card, 4^th time loser and at the end when you go to work, your employee rejects you because of your poor result, that makes you the 5^th and the biggest loser in your life and career.

So think for yourself, by acting foolishly, what do you gain from that? Just because your lecturer rejects you or disagrees with you few times, you behave like GANGSTER and give up everything. Now, let me tell you, NO ONE will look at the side and the REAL meaning inside you that makes you want to behave like this. NO ONE knows your actual and details of WHY YOU BECOME LIKE THIS, or GIVE UP YOUR WORK. NO……………if you think that acting like this will make people aware of you and pity you, then you are 10000000% wrong. To your personal friends, MAYBE ok, because you have more time to spend with them and share with them, maybe they’ll know the details why you behave ignorance. But to lecturer or boss, they don’t and never ever will look at that part. WHY? Here it goes…….

For professionals, when you don’t do your job means you don’t do your job. That’s it, PLEASE avoid this from happening again and do it better in the future. That’s it, nothing more. This is lecturers and bosses’ concept, unless you produce MC or a very valid reason to prove that why you cannot complete your job, then could be excused. Otherwise, you are being seen as an incapable student. So, you already being claimed as an incapable student, YET you show your lecturer that he/she is right because you give up your work and behave foolishly. So what will the lecturer think of you more? You’re childish, say you few words you act like this, give up. .

“WHEN YOU GIVE UP YOURSELF, PEOPLE GIVE UP YOU”

So please think for yourself, is it correct to act according to the feeling which is discouragement.

What is actually happens?

Nothing is happening, is just that your lecturer/boss thinks that you could do better, that’s why you are being rejected. Lecturer /boss tent to see things that you could not see, they know what you can do more and what you are able to produce. They know this is not your level and they want more from you, that’s why they reject you NOW. Wanting you to do better in your work is for your OWN GOOD, right. Think of it, why does someone want you to do better in your work? They could just ignore you and approve everything, even though they see that your work is sucks, they can just say OK to you, if that makes you happy and if that’s what you want….but is it what you want? Or you want to do better?

And think of it, why we have to show our sketches or ideas to lecturer/boss before we proceed to final? Because you want to make it better that’s why you show it to someone who knows more than you, right? If not you can just finish your work and submit, but why you feel being let down or discourage when you are being rejected? Can’t you accept critics or comment on your work? Wow,,, so HIGH level ah,,,,cannot take critics from lecturer/boss? Then you live in your own world whereby no one rejects you. Think of it . .!

Sometimes you could be rejected 3 to 4 times, sometimes until the lecturer/boss give up and just tells you what to do. Of course this is other topic, we’re not into this now. The point is, when lecturer/boss rejects you, is because they know you can do better than THIS, that’s it. Of course there are rare cases that CHEAP lecturer/boss tent to go against a particular student, that is personal problem and stupid lah..im not going to talk about that here.

What should you be doing then ?

Very simple, disagree it and always prove that HIS statement is wrong. Prove that you are a person who is capable and motivated, hardworking and successful.

Imagine, you want to leave this place that leaving your lecturer/boss still thinking that you are a useless person? Of course you might say, , , “ there are things that can’t be explain, let him think who I am, is his brain “ NO…no..no…..wrong wrong wrong. Never think of this if you haven’t even tried to make him wrong, without even giving you a chance to improve you already agree with HIM, then you are wrong.

It depends on WHO is putting the statement on you, YOU should know it for yourself. Who is able to guide you and teach you,, who is not able,,I believe you yourself should know. Now the biggest mistake you do is when you are letting the person whom you know can teach and guide you to think that you are useless, that’s the mistake you ever do. If you prefer to ignore it, then you are surely useless.

Never let people claim that you are useless, neither professionals nor person whom you think is useless. Imagine, if someone you think is USELESS claims that you are useless, and you never prove to him to shut his mouth up, then let me ask you, who you are then? You are a person who is CLAIMED useless by a useless person. J wow.. .

NOW, this is what you should do, when your lecturer/boss think that you are useless, then you should do it better next time, if the next time still not ok,,,then do it better again, until ONE DAY,,,they say.. you are GREAT, you prove that you can do it. GOOD. How about that statement ??? great right ? no matter who is saying, the point is, IN YOUR LIFE, we always show that we CAN. Specially to those who we KNOW we should pay our respect ON.

I know this feeling, because I faced it before, and it is really not comfortable, and it took me 1 year to prove it, until ONE day I heard “ YOU PROVED IT TO ME THAT YOU CAN “ I tell you, this feeling is really indescribable.

So remember, every time when you are rejected from your work, don’t feel discourage, just tell him in your heart, ONE DAY I WILL MAKE YOU SAY “ wow . . . you’re good “

Personal talk : to those student whom I’ve ever said “ GOOD “ or disbelieve that this work is actually produce by you…remember? Recall…recall…. If I’ve ever done this to you, then I tell you now,,,, that is the moment I feel you IMPROVED and you’ve showed to me YOU CAN. . ok.

NOTE** - be sure that everytime you know why and what's the reason the particular lecturer/boss rejects your work. THIS IS THE most important thing to know, but not being rejected without knowing why. MUST ask,,,,what happen and why he rejects it.

- There is some cheap lecturer that really does reject student without reason or maybe just because him/herself doesn't like the particular student. In that case, i can only say " ACCEPT your LIFE " . " 认命" .you are unfortunately being thought by cheap lecturer.

Hope this helps you.

Free to ask anything if you wish.

Long-gas

Momo-man

Presentation

What is presentation ?

"Presentation is the practice of showing and explaining the content of a topic to an audience or learner"
by Wikipedia

Presentation is a method to transfer your ideas or concepts, or maybe things that you want to share and explain to your audience or listener. It is also a way to to make you become a more confident being to be.
As a designer, we don't only design and sell products, but we have to sell it through our skills as well as our verbal and dialog skills. Learn how to talk and sell our own product while we have chance to present our design.
How to make your product more interesting through presentation? there are few ways that we should underline it.

1.) While presenting your artwork, you are not only go for the points and explain tell why this and this,,,this is this, and that's it. if you do that, then you are making your presentation boring. One of the most important mark during presentation is your FLOW or presenting it, and that is ;

• Your introduction - (short and brief ) The sample or example of the very same product that you are presenting now. Give your audience an idea and remind them of what is existing now in relating to the same product that you are about to recommend them.
• Your content - idea - concept - ( explain your concepts and ideas ) Your concept and idea should something which they never thing or even thought of. Something NEW to them, and surprise them. Something logical and make sense, and they would agree.
• Comparison - ( Compare your design/ideas to the existing design/ideas ) The meaning of compare here is not asking you to lowered others' product/design, but is more like giving your audience the idea or remind them of what they knwo,,,,,,is actually so shallow. Then now i show you what is REAL design, and of course that's your design that you are about to sell to him.
• Conclusion - (short conclusion to give your audience an ending ) Make a conclusion the end your presentation but not just leave your audience pending and hanging. The worse situation is when you are ending it but they are still waiting for the hi peak. Never let that happen in your presentation.

Now, having said all that, of course you have to practice and have confident. YOU must do all the above with full confident and through practice. Now, why we need practice ?

• Practice - it is because some of us find it difficult to explain and present in English. Specially to those chinese educated, you may be scoring an Ace in your SPM in English subject but that doesn't mean you are good in English conversation. That's one of the biggest problem to face. That's why we need to practice, PRACTICE the FLOW of the presentation.
• Do not be Bombastic - Try to be yourself and speak correct English. Try to be yourself means speak and talk in your own ability in using English, do not try to SLANG or BE LIKE American to turn and twist your tongue or even create a BOMBASTIC sentences. WHY? it is because you need to FULLY focus on your presentation furthermore is in English, and that's more than enough to make your mind to control and focus on these basic things. YET you put in more worries and focus point on BOMBASTIC sentences and SLANG English speaking. Can you see? it makes you so busy in your mind while you are about to present, so,,without noticing it,, it will make you freak out and out of focus, clear your mind, black out, blank, no ideas, all the ideas gone, and even present halfway, you stop and lost of ideas and speech.
• Relax - How to relax ? simple, do your practice and know what you are doing in your design. otherwise, you won't be relaxed. That's why practice and preparation is very important.

Why are we scare to do something ? why scare? it is just because we don't have confident in what we are about to do or share. In terms of lost confident? lack of practice and lack of understanding on the objectives.

Here's the deal, if you don't do your practice and be lazy, then I tell you NOW. You won't overcome this problem in presentation, it will always be with you. WHY ? because you are not solving it and not willing to improve and grow. So, if you don't mind you cannot talk and present your artwork in the future, then choose your own choice. Be what you are now and that is, always no confident while standing infront to talk to many people.

YOU WANT TO BE THAT ? WHAT DO YOU THINK ? ~_-

Hope these points help you, still don't understand then we talk about it when we meet.

long-gas
momo-man

Jealousy

What happens when your friend suddenly not going well with you, or maybe ignore you. After sometimes, you find out from some other friends that he/she's actually jealous about you. Why? no one knows, but it's seems sudden.

If this stuff happens in your life, then I want to congratulates you first before I continue the rest. Why am I congratulating you? it is because you've done something successful in your life whereby SOMEONE could not do it or achieve. It is because you are way much better and successful then him/her, therefore she jealous you or doesn't like you anymore.

Let's think it this way, why the hell does he/she jealous you out of a sudden? why,,,,everything that happens around us, there must be a starting point or reason. rite. . . unless you are talking about CRAZY and useless people, there are the one without reason of doing something,,,, ignore them...they are not in the topic...

ok....so he/she hates you or jealous you,,,because you are better than him/her. He/She couldn't get what you have, but he/she wants it. . . therefore, she chooses to hate and jealous you,,,and that makes him/her happier... ok,,,well since you feel happier in this situation,,,then go ahead...rite.

Conclusion, this kind of friendship......who cares... it really doesn't matter either you have or do not have a relationship with this TYPE of people, cos they are boring and useless. and senseless and un-educated. The are not a professional, by rite,,,, if you see your friend is much better than you.,,,,then you should fight him,,,, or follow his/her foot step. try to be like him/her or better than him/her. But not just sit back and testify that you are a looser to him/her.

Make him jealous you in other way round, that means you are a successful ones than him/her...rite..... of cos we don't hope our friend to jealous us lah........ :)

anyway,,,,remember. When someone jealous you,,, don't forget.... remember... look around yourself and think.... and know that you have done something successful whereby someone couldn't do it.

" YOU ARE SUCCESSFUL THAN THEM, THEREFORE THEY JEALOUS YOU"

Do you worry about your Future and Career?

Do you worry about your Future and Career?

worry about the course you are studying now is useless in the future? or your
friends told you study art and design would bring you to a better and brighter
future? your cousin or uncle told you, study graphic design or interior design
(Beh tan Chiak) ? which means cannot find money? or your parent told you, you
must study this and that,,but not art and design " becos i dont like it
"

Back in 1993, i remembered when i was still in Form 3 in Sekolah Menengah
Kebangsaan Bukit Mertajam,

Penang

. that was a
time i suddenly thought of my future, cos as you know,,later form 3 or shall i
say after PMR, we are forced to select either you want to go for Sains class or
art class or account ..rite... then i thought to myself, since i love to draw
then i should go for art stream, but then later on after i finished my PMR and
got the result (though was suck)... but i still managed to join Science, becos
i was thinking science scope is bigger, and of cos ,,that doesnt do any harm either
you are taking wat during your secondary school...cos the MAIN point is,,,are
you doing your best,,, if you are doing your best,,no matter what stream you
are,,,you are SOMETHING different in there. thats wat i believe. we always do
our best...ok,,,that was the intro of my life path.

Why that, cos before that, many people told me,,, if you take Science, you need
to study double, and it's not a focus subject, unlike account or sastera or
wat, and you like art, you should go to art,,bla bla bla,,,all kinds of
opinions and ideas,,, " too much cook, spoil the soup" .. for my own
principle, i do wat i feel i want to do, no body can influence me, without
influenced by their opinion, of cos I do take people’s advice for
consideration. So without thinking further, i strait signed into science and
finished it.

 

But later on I think of am I going to be something like
scientist of wat, does it influence me if I am to study in a graphic college?
After thinking of so much, I still do my best in my form 4 and 5 of cos I took
extra subject in Lukisan lah…., after I got my SPM result, I came to Equator
Academy or Art.

 

So in 1996 April, I joined EAA, and before that, many people
told me,,,study Graphic design ahh,,,, you die la,,, no future la,,,wat wat
la,,, cannot earn money la,,one month salary not enough to buy food for your
fish la,,dog la,,,like tat…wah,,,so teruk meh… but frankly tell you, though I
heard so many negative feed back, but I still focus on wat I want to do and
study. Still focus on my GOLE, and go for it.

 

When I came to 1998 July, it was my 3rd year in
EAA, and that time I was rushing my final project ade, and again I thought of,
HOW AH,,now almost finish study liao, don know can find job boh,,,, then still decide not to think too much as I
believe GOD will make a way. Then really when I started my 3rd year
first term, a lecturer came to me and asked me if I want to work part time for a graphic design agency. To me,
it was something really new and tough, cos I need to work at the same time, I
need to rush my final.. as an opportunity, I grab this chance and willing to go
for an interview, who knows, the boss strait accept me, without interview,
so I guess it was kind of lucky and also
a new task in my life.

So, I started to work part time and at the same time, im
building my skills and my knowledge on graphic design, and after sometimes, I
gain lots of knowledge during the work. And it’s the same word, I DO MY BEST
even in the job, and boss somehow noticed my ability, and asked me to come to
work with them as a full timer after I finish my study……VUALAH………here it is, I
got my job even before I was graduated.

 

I finished my diploma in 1999 April and strait work as a
full time graphic designer in the agency. Actually join the agency in 1998
july, I spent a year plus plus there and learnt lots of thing.

 

OK, after the long old story, the point is,

1.) Do
the best in any course you are studying in now, don listen to wat people say
but believe in yourself and your own ability. If you are doing your best in the
specific situation, sure you will be outstanding, and those outstanding always
would be the one with a better future and career. Imagine, if you are a boss,
will you employ a worker with full of C or D in his/her cert? NO of cos, but
you would prefer to employ a TOP student rite. So as the reality. Do your best
in where you are, that’s the most important ones.

2.) Focus
on what you are doing and be serious on it, know what you are doing everytime,
but not doing it foolishly and blindly. Without objectives and aims, then
that’s really stupid. Always ask and seek for advice and learn from seniors or
others… this is how we learn, be humble to learn, learning is not a waste,,, if
you are to learn something on THAT DAY,,,,even a worse person would make an
impact in your life on that day, you might found out you learn something from
the worse person on that day.

3.) Just
remember one thing, your career starts now, and it begins NOW, if you plan to
work hard on your 3rd year, and let it sucks for the 1st
and 2nd year, then you are GONE ! so if you have that kind of
thinking, then stop it, cos you need to work REALLY hard from now, REALLY HARD
you know. Cos all the result you get during your 1st year will be
accumulated with your 2nd and 3rd year result. So if you
got more than 70% sucks result,,then will end up getting a poor diploma.

4.) You
want to play, yes,,there is lots of time to play, is just the matter how you
manage your time.

5.) Im
not trying to scare you here, but remember, now is 2008 ,,, education is very
important, GOV sector, NO chance for you ya…., don even think about it. So wat
we do, we can only work amongst the private sector, what happen if you are
USELESS to private sector, which mean you got no where to go, then why you
waste your time 3 years here? You learn nothing yet useless to the world. Think
and plan for yourself. If you think im joking and talking nonsense, then good
luck to you.

 

Conclusion, no matter what course you studying now, is all
the same, you can study doctor or lawyer, what happen if you got very bad
result, the conclusion is,,,you are still useless and jobless. It’s the same as
you study art and design, if you got poor result, the same ending. So, one
thing to remember .. . . do your best in which ever area you are.
That’s the most important one. God will do his part if you have done your part .

long gas-ed,

momo.

Cannot manage your timeline? cannot focus on your work?

I was having some chat with an old fren, and then we came across the topic of time management and work time line. hmm.... not bad ye...this is a common problem faced by MOST of the people i guess.. except those exceptional ones :)

Ok, the summary is, everyday or everytime we know we have work to do, and some are really important task that has to be finished earlier, some we are assigned with dateline. but either way, is the better to finish things as soon as possible but never wait till last minutes, but of cos sometimes reality might just drag you from reaching the goal fast.

What ever it is, everything comes back to your own attitude, your own disciple and self management. This is your life, if you cannot handle and control it, then no one could. think about it :)

having said that, actually it is not that hard to tackle these kind of problem if only you ALLOW yourself to handle it for yourself. and it's very simple, again! it's upon yourself, if you cannot do it, don't blame other people but look at the mirror and ask yourself. :)

1.) human nature ! majority are the same when it comes to work. specially people like US nowadays, we have full of entertainments and hi tech gadgets at home. we don have to go outside to look for fun and entertainment, but just by sitting infront of your computer, you can spend the whole day there..... am i rite :)

Just think about it, have you ever come across that everytime when you want to start to do your work, and at first you are so full of WILL and CONFIDENT that you will complete your work NOW and THEN,,,then you walk to your computer and switch on it, after you enter to windows, you see the MSN icon or some are AUTO sign in, and then  " Teng Deng " your fren Nudge you or greet you " hi " ... :)

OK, now,,,, your spirit of completing your TASK begins NOW, if you reply " sorry busy " and LOG OFF, then you are able to continue with wat you first plan = Finish your project now......

ok,,,,if you reply him/her " hi,,,how are you today " then she will reply you again,,,and then ....then...then.... then thats the end of your PLAN . . why i say that,

according to survey and experience, 80% of human nature is, we tent to adapt on situation very quickly, which mean, your WILL power goes according to what you first do when your WILL is still on FIRE. Once the fire burns and you start to do your project or assignment, then you will continue to do it until after 4 or 5 hours non stop. NOW..... on the other way, if you start by CHATING or Playing GAMEs, then your WILL or FIRE will burn at the CHATING or GAME way,,,,so you will end up playing games or chating....

and this is very dangerous, you will sure CHEAT yourself by saying, i am doing work at the same time,,,,just REPLYING my fren in MSN. NO..don't think tat way, you are just cheating yourself, you are not just REPLYING but you are actually wasting your time in chatting.

Talk about gamers, it's the same way. When you first come to your computer, you are still on FIRE to do your work, then you tell yourself,,, " let me relax by just playing a round of GAME" , then here goes your WILL of work,,,is on playing GAME. sometimes,,,, "YES " you really play one round and you switch  to project. Believe me, your WILL is not as good as IF you start do your work from the beginning. let's you have 100% will power, after one round of game,,it will decrease to 60% or 50%,,, then this 50% to 60% will decrease very fast and then to 0%...then you end up tired and think lots of excusses to yourself by saying,,,  " i still left 1 hour only, i'll do my project tomolo lah " or " you will ignore the project and go wondering around "

why like this, HUMAN nature, let's start from the beginning.
when you first came to your computer, if you strait to your project which means your brain is still fresh and you are still on FIRE, then the fire will keep on burn on the path way of completing project,,,and you won't think of game or msn... your body and mind will automatically focus on project,,and you wont feel tired,,,cos your train your mind from the beginning.

then if you play games of chatting first,,then your mind and brain is told to having fun and relax,,,cos chatting and gaming is FUN and Relax.,,so you see... you tell your brain to relax and fun at the beginning when HE is still fresh and on FIRE of waiting for you to order him wat to do,,,so since you ask HIM to play game first,,,,so very fast,,,he tells your body to relax and fun. Then you end up do project less.

Believe me, try to clock and calculate your total working hour, lets say you spend 5 hours in front of your computer with all the chatting software on, and you are chatting with fren and together you are doing work. if you can... let's calculate your total working hour, im sure you chat more than your work. let's say 3 hours chatting and 1 hour work, 1 hour browsing around internet for research and for nothing.

So, how to tackle and avoid these problems from occur? simple, like i said, strait to the point and disconnect yourself from all the Messenger or GAMEs. Sure you can complete your work well and smooth. TRY

Also, remember, of cos you are allow to play and fun, specially those who loves to play games. then set your time, when to work,,when to play game.

I told this many times to fren, and i will say again now,,,,cos is really effective, and not much people are using this method, cos they think im crazy and stupid. :) well it's ok.

The technique is,

Everyday, PUNISH yourself to do project/assignment in 2 hours times, if you can go more, then 3 or 4. When i was taking my degree course, i gave myself everyday 4 hours to do my project and assignments. During this 4 hours, im totally disconnected, but just focus on project. until i totally complete all subjects, if cannot finish but already 4 hours, i will stop. TOTALLY stop, and never think of project on that day, cos my mission is complete, and my promise to myself is complete,,,soo i enjoy the rest of my time through out the whole day. Then will do the same thing again tomolo, on SUNDAY,,,im totally OFF...no project or assignemtn in my mind,,then i can enjoy my Kuala Lumpur shopping with my good fren Syahman Othman :)

Believe me, 2 to 4 hours, FULLY focus on your project, just produce what ever you can,,,such as print outs research, reading, research, sketch, conceptual sketchs, what ever you can ..as long as it is for project use. I tell you,,,,more than enough to complete all you want for the project. yet you have a very good and complete Journal to submit.  TRY...

ok... talk more later, need to go class :)

long gas-ed
Moses

Do GOOD things,don't remember, do BAD things, remember for life !

In our life, i guess each and everyone of us has gone through this concept or come across this thinking whereby we always think of, why HUMAN nature is just as boring as this. When you do good to someone, it does not count for any credits, but if you do BAD he will remember it for once. You got my point?
Sometimes we might hear it from your friends and even family members. Do 10 times good, they don't appreciate, but remember all the time the mistakes i did last time, always bring it back during quarrel. Either you come across these or not, i leave that to you.
Ok, let's share this out and you think the rest.
In human nature, NO ONE is borned to do BAD things, rite. Everyone is assigned or expected to do GOOD things. Having said that, automatically doing good things is just as normal as drinking water in our daily life. It has become nothing to human, though you are doing good things. Doing good things is not highlited in our life. Unless stuff that is really very very good, then people will remember it. But not really as remember as rememebr bad things.
Ok, since everyone is doing good, like i said is nothing to human. So ,,, if you do ONE single BAD thing then the BAD thing is highlited. Thats why everybody remembers what you've done wrong, because it has become something very diffrerent from NORMAL,,and that is doing GOOD. you get the point?
If everyone is doing BAD, then you try to do GOOD, then people will always remember your GOOD things. And the BAD things has become normal,,no one will remember it. Like some of the boss or company, they always trying to do bad things to others, and YOU try to stand up and fight for the RIGHT things, therefore you are wrong. Get the point !!
A group of people always think and plan bad things to others, for them ! doing bad things are GOOD. So if you stupidly trying to fight for the RIGHT things, therefore ,,, all of them hate you,,and you become wrong,,instead. what a shame....these people doen't know what is rite and what is wrong. :)
Sometimes is so sad to have these kind of people around us, and no matter how you try to safe and help them,,they just keep on think of nagetive stuff and think that you try to go against them, and never accept the fact. What a shame, and pitty to these kind of people too :)
So, this is my point of view to the phrase of
"Why people only remember my mistakes and never remember my GOODs "
so this is one of the point that explains the question. Is just a sharing and point of view. ok :)
cheers
long-gas :
moses