Who is the one we really need to remember and appreciate?
谁才是我们真正要感激的人呢？
90% of human nature often not notice the blind spot appreciation in our life, and often we tent to hurt people around us that really care and concern about us. Of course is up to us to chose who we should really appreciate and thanking, and when stuff happening, you will turn the table and say,
90%的人往往都看不到盲点的感激，通常都呼列了真正在我们身边爱与关心我们的人。当然，我们有我们的选择，谁值得我们感激，谁不，，要不然呢，，，就会说，，
"nobody is asking you to concern and care about me, you care and love me because you wanted to do it, I'm not asking it".
“谁要你来管心，我没要你的关心，是你自愿的“
“谁要你来管心，我没要你的关心，是你自愿的“
wow... isn't that sound hurt and selfish? but YAH.... you can say that cause it is true and is the fact, and when one says that, we cannot blame anyone, because we can chose not to care about him/her.
啊。。。。。那听起来很痛吧，可是这都是实时也没有错。每人叫你关心她/他啊。。。所以不要怪任何人如果真的受伤了。
So, what is the thing we accidently missed out and hurt the one who cares for us?
The answer is the daily routine of someone puts in our life. Human nature is very funny, we tent to act like nothing, when someone always do the same thing in our life, either good or bad. But most people only remembers the bad things and good things are always seems nothing happen. rite ? Know why like that? it is because.....
是什么东西我们呼列了,使到真正爱我们的人伤心呢？答案就是那些每天默默不停的都在爱与关心我们的人。人类就是那么怪， 大多数的人都只记得坏事，好事当理所当然，当没事。为什么这样呢？很简单。。。
ok, back to the story's punch line,
回到故事。。。。
As we know that "A" always takes care of his grandma, but not B. But why A is not being mentioned by the grandma in fact he is the one who really loves and cares about the grandma, whereby B never even bothers about the grandma, but just do it once or twice, and that makes the grandma so happy?
some may say, because grandma lost hope on B, but when B changes his attitude, grandma feels like she has her grand son back. So that makes her so happy, whereby the A, everyone already knows that he is a good son, so needless to tell everyone and remind everyone.
That is the grandma's perspective, but how does A feels when he hears it? A might think, I'm the one who really cares and loves you, but why you didn't talk about me, but B just do it once, you tell everyone, and that makes everyone thought that I'm not taking care of you.
The point here is very simply.
FOR THE GIVER: everything we do, we do it with our true heart, you feel you want to care about someone, that's your chose. Do and give it without WISHING to get any feedback and return from the one we care. That will make you live happier, otherwise you will suffer. He/She won't know what you are thinking and wishing back, don't think that someone will know what you are thinking and hoping, that is just dump and stupid. No one cares and no one knows what the hack you are wishing back from them. So, just give, and go..... give and go.... and never wish for something back.
FOR THE RECEIVER: try to find out in your life, and make it clear and KNOW, who is the one who really cares and loves us, and do it none stop, every time we needed it, and always be there for us. These are the people we normally put a side, and never mention, because they are the person who already accepted us in their life, so is mission complete. Most of us we focus on those that haven't accepted us in their life, but when one day he/she suddenly FRIEND and TALKS to you, you feel so happy that they finally ACCEPTED you,,,weeeee,,,,so you become over joy and happy, and you spread the news of how good he/she is in your life, how he/she spends time with you... and so on...
But this is the NOT WRONG situation that we hurt those who everyday none stopping CARE and LOVED us. Give you another example, do you thank your papa mama everyday? NOOOOO.............do you thank your friend that just takes care of you for ONLY one time or two in your life? YEEESSSSSS.......... why like that? hard to explain....
hope you make your blind spot clear and make it a NOTE in your life. Appreciate those who never gives up on us, know that who is the one in our life.
with that, maybe we cheer up someone's life . . .by no means.
活到老，学到老 。Live until old, learn until old ^^
long gas-ed
momo-man
啊。。。。。那听起来很痛吧，可是这都是实时也没有错。每人叫你关心她/他啊。。。所以不要怪任何人如果真的受伤了。
So, what is the thing we accidently missed out and hurt the one who cares for us?
The answer is the daily routine of someone puts in our life. Human nature is very funny, we tent to act like nothing, when someone always do the same thing in our life, either good or bad. But most people only remembers the bad things and good things are always seems nothing happen. rite ? Know why like that? it is because.....
是什么东西我们呼列了,使到真正爱我们的人伤心呢？答案就是那些每天默默不停的都在爱与关心我们的人。人类就是那么怪， 大多数的人都只记得坏事，好事当理所当然，当没事。为什么这样呢？很简单。。。
" everyone is designed and created to do GOOD, when you do BAD, the BAD is something special" . . . agree?
因为我们人是被造来做”好事“的，所以当你做”坏事“呢，”坏事“变得很特别。 对不对。。。
因为我们人是被造来做”好事“的，所以当你做”坏事“呢，”坏事“变得很特别。 对不对。。。
ok, back to the story's punch line,
回到故事。。。。
As we know that "A" always takes care of his grandma, but not B. But why A is not being mentioned by the grandma in fact he is the one who really loves and cares about the grandma, whereby B never even bothers about the grandma, but just do it once or twice, and that makes the grandma so happy?
some may say, because grandma lost hope on B, but when B changes his attitude, grandma feels like she has her grand son back. So that makes her so happy, whereby the A, everyone already knows that he is a good son, so needless to tell everyone and remind everyone.
YES, IN FACT IS JUST LIKE THAT, IS THAT SIMPLE?
That is the grandma's perspective, but how does A feels when he hears it? A might think, I'm the one who really cares and loves you, but why you didn't talk about me, but B just do it once, you tell everyone, and that makes everyone thought that I'm not taking care of you.
The point here is very simply.
NO ONE TO BLAME, NO FIGHTS TO FIGHT
FOR THE GIVER: everything we do, we do it with our true heart, you feel you want to care about someone, that's your chose. Do and give it without WISHING to get any feedback and return from the one we care. That will make you live happier, otherwise you will suffer. He/She won't know what you are thinking and wishing back, don't think that someone will know what you are thinking and hoping, that is just dump and stupid. No one cares and no one knows what the hack you are wishing back from them. So, just give, and go..... give and go.... and never wish for something back.
FOR THE RECEIVER: try to find out in your life, and make it clear and KNOW, who is the one who really cares and loves us, and do it none stop, every time we needed it, and always be there for us. These are the people we normally put a side, and never mention, because they are the person who already accepted us in their life, so is mission complete. Most of us we focus on those that haven't accepted us in their life, but when one day he/she suddenly FRIEND and TALKS to you, you feel so happy that they finally ACCEPTED you,,,weeeee,,,,so you become over joy and happy, and you spread the news of how good he/she is in your life, how he/she spends time with you... and so on...
YOU ARE NOT DOING WRONG, NOT AT ALL. NOT EVEN ONE PERCENT YOU ARE DOING WRONG, YOU ARE FREE AND IS YOUR RIGHT TO SHARE WHAT IS HAPPENING IN YOUR LIFE, AND I MEAN IT.
But this is the NOT WRONG situation that we hurt those who everyday none stopping CARE and LOVED us. Give you another example, do you thank your papa mama everyday? NOOOOO.............do you thank your friend that just takes care of you for ONLY one time or two in your life? YEEESSSSSS.......... why like that? hard to explain....
hope you make your blind spot clear and make it a NOTE in your life. Appreciate those who never gives up on us, know that who is the one in our life.
" handle & know the nature of you, but not being handled by your nature "
with that, maybe we cheer up someone's life . . .by no means.
活到老，学到老 。Live until old, learn until old ^^
long gas-ed
momo-man
1 comment:
Very nice share!!!
Interesting approach on a topic with the story. Very close to life experience of things around us.
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